Choices : Ownself or Others

If you r given a choice rather to sacrifice yourself or your closest person , what whould you choose ? If you are not capable of doing anything in your group , what would you do for your group ? Do nothing in order to bring no trouble to your group ? Do everything so that at least some of your work is good ? Do a little so that the others can be done by other members ? Or just simply finish out the work without think about the result ? Which 1 is more important , individual test or group assignment ? Co-curiculum or curiculum ? interest or responsible ? Mom or dad ? Arhhh ~~~ what a reality world , while others are shouting beside the open beach , i shout it in my heart , hope it can help me answerall of these questions in my hearts .